Just Hit the Delete Button!

Where to start this post? I know I will probably get some hate mail or whatever for this, but its coming out and I cant stop it!

I've come to realize that no matter what there is always that person or group of people that always know everything, and think they are better than the next person. I cant stand it that some people have a stick up their butt and think they are so much smarter, prettier, or more successful than others, yes this may be true since we are all different but they shouldn't make people feel bad or rub it in. I have also had enough of the crap that they call RUG. Its the same thing every week, the same topics come up and the same stupid drama each month. Its old and stupid. This is why I have removed myself of the crap!

Then the good 'ol DREAM VS. FHL battle. Maybe its just me but this is really stupid! Why is it that "they" think that there group is so much different than ours? In reality it is quite the same, FHL has done a benefit sale for a child with a disease, we have done get together with food involved, we reach out to our community and host PLAYDATES! Oh wait that is the only thing that we do NOT have in common with DREAM, We host weekly playdates! Dream has done the Benefit sale, get together with food involved (They just call it a recipe swap) and what have they done for the community as a whole? Maybe I have missed this but helping 3 girls go to prom doesn't do crap for the community....it just heightens the High School experience.

But there defense to this question is Well we plan to help Pregnant teens, or Adopt A  grandparent.....what does this have to do for the community??? Absolutely nothing....its helps those 2 categories Pregnant Teens and Old People....its nice and I salute them for helping but maybe with the Teens they should advocate Abstinence or Education on Safe Sex??? How about offer free condoms, or other forms of birth control, offer advice and guidance to end the cycle of teen pregnancy? Junction City has the Highest Teen Pregnancy rate in KS, do something to offer teens other options then having sex, because if they know they can just get help from this one group then why not do it?

They will also say that Dream is better or different because they want to become a NON Profit, and become National....sorry but when did recipe swaps become material for being a non profit? Guess what Ladies there is probably a group of FB doing the EXACT same thing you are in another Town...Guess what there are 13537873 groups on FACEBOOK and probably ran the same way as yours....Oh Wait that is FHL!

Maybe I am bitter, or stressed...or could just care less cause you are not pulling the wool over my eyes...I give it 2 more months before they are worn out and dwindling down, because you cannot run a non profit with 2 people! Let alone a facebook group with 5 active members and 93 inactive ones....Make that 92 :)

This plus the annoyance of FB status' of how immature "someone" is or  "if you have something to say then say it"  and the "OMG KISS MY ASS CAUSE I'M AMAZING" I have deleted a few more off the friends list....because you haven't added shit to my life so poof you are gone, just hit the delete button!

I have come to realize who my friends are, and who just wants me to be a number on their group. I rather have 5 amazing close friends then 93 acquaintances that only want my friendship when its a convince to them.

Just a lil somthing :)

Today Rylee decided to try potty training (again) she picked out a pull-up to put on, went and sat on the potty and went. Last time she wanted to do it for about a week and then gave up. Hopefully this time with a little more encouragement, a pull-up cake and dora panties we will be on the road to no more diapers! Everyday she is getting bigger and bigger and her little personality gets more and more complex. She is quite the lil' diva and its her way or the highway and if you touch or do something of hers that she doesnt like she will let you know! Oh and she is a mommy's girl 1000% and I am her mommy and no one else can have me (she will only share with sissy but any other lil kid better watch out!)

Last night Charleigh and I went grocery shopping, on the way home the song "How Low Can You Go" by Ludacris came on and from the back seat I hear "Mommy turn it up this is my song" and seeing my 3 yr old raise the roof and wiggle her hips was the funniest thing I have seen in a while! Now I did'nt know that on Saturday when she was with Nana and Aunt Chelsea she had done the same thing and they got a video of it using Aunt Chelsea's Phone. Looks like I got a dancer in the family.....just like her mama! She also says the most random things you could think of and a lot of the things she says are just SO grown up.


I finished my first two Pre-req. Classes last month and I recieved A's in both of them! (Go me) I have started my next class, which is Sociology. Its a lot different then the classes and a little more challenging but I think I will manage. Chris is getting ready to start Baseball and Soccer Season (AKA Busy Busy Season) Which anymore with all that he does I dont know why that makes me sad. It used to be just Baseball and Basketball season but now with him doing football too he is busy from Baseball-Basketball...or in months Mid March- Mid Feb. with small breaks in-between season. Makes it hard to plan things for us to do as a family, because he is gone 3-4 nights a week and some weekends. It sucks for me but he loves being involved in sports, and its starting to rub off onto Charleigh, she has become interested in Basketball and Baseball. So that makes Chris excited!

The Big 2!

 Yep, thats right no more babies in the Nelson Household, Miss Rylee-Anne Jael turned 2 this week, My baby is now a toddler! I really cannot believe it, so now Im at the crossroads of, to have a baby or to not have a baby. I want to have one more just to get it over with, then our family will be complete. We can get though the Dipers and toliet trainning and be completely finished, or we could do as Chris wants wait 3 more yrs and then start all over. OR just be content with the 2 little girls God has blessed us with. But what if God wants to bless us just one more time, like in the near future??? I guess we will just have to wait and see!


Rylee's party was a HIT! and so stinkin cute ;) Her Cupcake pops were so cute and I added chocolate dipped pretzles as well. The little kids LOVED decorating all the little cupcakes and everyone had fun. Rylee was very clingy which did not surprise me at all, she does not like attention from big groups of people, and is very shy with large crowds, probably did help that every one was dotting on her! Here are some wonderful pictures from my Girl Friend Kristle....She is a great photographer!

Charleigh all Dressed Up!

Rylee, being Shy!